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April 28, 2006 at 5:59 pm #7120AnonymousInactive
Well, Hunter is still battling reflux as well as his seizures. We had another EEG the other day and it shows that his seizures are not infantile spasms anymore so they must be evolving into another type of seizure disorder. We are going to schedule a 4 hour EEG to get more conclusive information at this point. He is almost 10 months old and probably only about 4-5 months old developmentally at this point. I really hope we can help him with this soon.
We FINALLY got our GI doc to do a PH probe on Hunter and, alas, he has reflux. DUHHHHHHHHHHHH! I wanted to smack the you know what out of the guy.
He was very against us doing a fundo and wanted to put an NJ tube in. I cried and cried and cried to him and told him that the only pleasure Hunter has in life is eating and he wants to take that away from him????
He finally relented and has agreed to send us to the surgeon for the fundo. We HAD an appointment for this past Tuesday, but lucky Hunter, he caught rotavirus again. Then I got it and was sick as a dog, but who cares about me. I want my kid feeling good for once in his life.
So, here we are, awaiting surgery. I am nervous but also hopeful it will give him some relief. Hunter still is constantly throwing himself backwards and arching his whole body all the time. I hope this surgery helps that and he feels comfortable in a sitting or upright position finally.
Who has gotten the fundo, and have you had success with it? Did you have any side effects?
Our GI doc is convinced Hunter will have the wretching and heaving problems and still wants to put an NJ tube in anyways. I just want to avoid that right now and cross that bridge when we have to.
Every day is a struggle, especially since Hunter is getting bigger and is still throwing himself backwards all the time, or having seizures that throw him forward. He is still extremely irritable all the time too. I just want him to smile and enjoy his life, and it kills me that I brought a child into this world just to struggle through each day.
Please keep us in your prayers. Hopefully God will listen soon. Thank you for listening, and sorry I dont have time to post much anymore.
April 28, 2006 at 7:01 pm #7127AnonymousInactiveDawn
Thank you for updating us. It has been a while, but i cannot imagine what you are going through. I am sorry to hear about the seizures and the reflux. I really don’t know anything about NJ tubes… can he not take anything orally with them? Why does he need the fundo… i guess his reflux is pretty bad?
I can only offer my support and my prayers. I am praying that Hunter gets well soon and please keep us updated on everything.
I just also wanted to let you know that there is another support group that i recently joined (this group is amazing and will still be here but i have found a group with specific information on feeding therapies, dev delays, fundo, etc etc). It is
parent-2-parent.com/forum
There is A LOT of people there with babies with delays, there is a ton of info on fundo and the decision and also a lot of people with babies on NJ tubes. Can i suggest that you take a look there?
Please keep us updated.
April 28, 2006 at 8:05 pm #7130AnonymousInactiveThank you Thais I will check out that group!
April 28, 2006 at 8:09 pm #7132AnonymousInactivemy daughter has had a fundo that was very successful and she has had no side effects or complications. the only time she has wretched is when she was sick. it really scared me because i didn’t realize she was sick and thought she was choking. she has no problem burping.
April 28, 2006 at 8:18 pm #7133AnonymousInactiveThe reason we are getting the fundo is because of his constant arching and discomfort from the constant reflux. Whenever you pick him up or try to sit him up or move him or hold him he begins reswallowing, burping, and even sometimes spitting all the way up. I know his neuro problems may be making it worse, but unfortunately we havent been able to get him any relief for that so we are trying to get him relief for the reflux.
A few weeks ago we had to be admitted to the hospital because the GI doc said he sounded like he was aspirating. We did a swallow test and determined he was not, but its still scary to hear your kid sounding like hes underwater after he eats.
April 28, 2006 at 8:34 pm #7136AnonymousInactiveDawn, can I ask why they chose klonopin for the seizures? I take it for anxiety and didn’t know it helped with seizures too, a friend of mine has a little boy who has seizures (not infantile spasms) and is trying to figure out what medications work best for them. I will pray for Hunter hun, and I hope he gets some relief form the fundo! (side note, I’m in GA too, Marietta)
April 28, 2006 at 9:15 pm #7140AnonymousInactiveDawn, I am so sorry that Hunter is still suffering so much. I feel so bad for him, and I hope he can get some relief soon. Did he ever have the scope done (sorry I can’t remember)? Also, just wondering how severe the reflux came up on the probe and why the doc wants him to go to tube feeding if he enjoys oral feeding? I hope you don’t mind all the questions.
I will keep you and Hunter and my prayers.
April 28, 2006 at 9:38 pm #7145AnonymousInactiveI posted this under another post, but it may also be helpful to you. I know it is more about the G-tube but I talk about the fundo a little also. I am very thankful for the fundo, it has really made a difference for the better in Samantha’s life. BTW Samantha can burp also (although she does not very often) Hope this helps!
The wonderful thing
about the G-tube is you KNOW that you can keep them hydrated. Samantha
is to the point now that she only gets her tube feeds at night, during
the day she eats by mouth. For the first probably 4 months after
surgery, she was mostly tube fed. It just seemed to “click” with her
one day that eating did not make her hurt. She had some rough spots
after the surgery, she could only handle small feeds at first (the
fundo makes the stomach smaller) she did retch some if she got too full
and she had quite a bit of post op swelling that would not allow her to
take food by mouth (but it did resolve right at 6 weeks like they said
it would) The G-tube has made Samantha be no longer FTT and she has
been FTT most of her life. She will have her Mic-Key for quite a while
more, as she still relies on the night feeds to keep her growing. The
nice thing is when I lay her down at night, I do not have to worry
about her aspirating on her reflux (which she was doing pre-fundo) She
does not constantly act like she is in pain. I do not have to hear
that “reflux noise” over and over and over. She is a much happier
child now and I know if she does go on a feeding stike, I have a way to
keep her from getting dehydrated. After multiple hospitilizations for
just that, I am very thankful for the G-tube.I have a
carepage that I keep people up to date on Samantha’s care and
progress. In it I posted about the time right before and after her
fundo. I actually started it in August of last year when she was
diagnosed with cancer and I keep it up. If you want to read about her
fundo time it was in October when she had her surgery. It might give
you a little insight (keep in mind I was a little frazzled when I wrote
the updates) The link is in my signature. Also please feel free to
email me if you have anymore ?s as to what to expect, I would be happy
to answer any questions.April 29, 2006 at 9:18 am #7160AnonymousInactiveMy nephew had seizures i think around 3 months old. They put him on lots of different medicines and not much really helped and he ended up with developmental delays. He has feeding issues also. He is now 12 months old and his seizures have slowed down and he sees a physical therapist 2 times a week. I just saw a post on her care pages that he is no longer developmentally delayed and the dr thinks he will have seizures for the rest of his life but they are controlled with the right medicine now.
I will be praying that your story will be similar and Hunter will have no problems as he gets older. Isaac and I are sending you big hugs!
April 29, 2006 at 10:47 am #7168AnonymousInactiveI’m so sorry to hear this Dawn – we will keep you and Hunter in our thoughts and prayers and hope he feels better soon.
April 29, 2006 at 1:03 pm #7178AnonymousInactiveHi Dawn,
(((HUGS))) I got choked up reading your post & hearing all you are going through. I’m glad the docs are finally taking notice & willing to help Hunter.
Very important question: I’m assuming Hunter sees a neurologist for the seizures. What labs has he had run? Before the GI doc would do the fundo, he wanted to make sure the neuro had run some specific labs (organic acids was one, cannot remember the other–sorry). Anyway, the tests would lead more to a metabolic disorder. All of Emma’s labs had come back negative, so he was ok doing the fundo. IF they were positive, we’d first attempt to treat the metabolic issue, which would probably resolve or help the reflux. The fear was if Emma had a metabolic disorder, that sever wretching would result from the fundo.
On the flip side of that, I’ve gotten to know a few other parents over the past year whose children are developmentally delayed and/or have neurological disorders, the majority of them DO have fundos & have done well with them. Emma does wretch (probably more than the average fundo), but we have found that Prevacid has helped some with that. Emma is also able to vomit past the fundo (whe she had rotavirus), docs have deemed it a ‘perfect fundo’ b/c it is intact, but allows her stomach to empty if need be. We do keep phergren on hand to help with her wretching when she is sick. Emma does not burp, so we use the mic-key to help her vent her tummy of air.
In that regard, I would advise the mic-key as well. Emma required a feeding tube b/c of her health problems. The GI said he would NOT do an NG tube b/c of her reflux & sensory issues. He said the irritation of an NG can worsen those 2 things, & a lot of times make any food aversions worse. Or create a food aversion. The add’l benefit of the gtube is that you are able to vent the tummy (which helps with the wretching & of course gas, especially after crying, etc.), which you cannot do with an ng.
The gtube has been a blessing for us, we know Emma is well hydrated & she gets ALL her calories (she is finally chubby!). Additionally, we know each & everyday she receives ALL of her medicine (no fear of her spitting it out, etc.). She was unable to eat orally for 1 month post-op, then following a video swallow that showed her aspiration had improved, she started foods again. It has been a challenge, but I think that too is specific to Emma. She has always had issues with eating & oral aversions. Most kiddos do just fine post-op when it comes to eating again, whether they have the gtube or not.
If they are considering the ng tube & feel Hunter needs it (why did they feel he needed it?), I would ask about a gtube instead. If his growth has been slow, has suffered by dehydration with his rotavirus or other illnesses, or has a hard time taking his meds, it may be easier to just do the gtube now with the fundo. I’m not saying he needs it for sure right now OR that he will for sure need one in the future, but there is a high likelihood, based on his seizures & developmental delay.
Please let me know if you have any more questions. The fundo has been great for us, knowing Emma is not refluxing & aspirating. I pray all goes well & that Hunter’s seizures can get under control with the medicine. TAKE CARE.
April 29, 2006 at 3:45 pm #7187AnonymousInactiveDawn,
Hailey has also been tested for a metabolic disorder- they looked at the regular blood stuff, lactic acid, organic acid screen, amino acid screen, and a test called oligo and _ _ _ (it’s 3 letters and I can’t remember). Our ped is also a pediatric metabolic geneticist, and so he wanted to rule these things out. If you haven’t had them done already, it is a good idea. Hailey’s lactic acid, organic acid, and several amino acids came back elevated, but the doc says it’s not in any pattern to suggest a disorder.
I can imagine what you are going through, and think of you and Hunter often since his diagnosis. I hope and pray that he can get some relief soon.
s&h’s mum2006-4-29 15:46:22
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