There’s definitely a light at the end of the tunnel!! Both of my refluxers outgrew it at 9 months which may seem like an eternity to you right now, but the months really do fly by.
As for the swallowing, it’s still very possible that the meds are working fine even though she is still refluxing and swallowing. The meds should stop the acid production so that when she does reflux it doesn’t hurt, but she will still have episodes of reflux and swallowing. Myles did that alot even though he was properly medicated and pain free.
Does she seem to be in pain?
Good luck with her appointment in January.