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April 13, 2006 at 11:34 am #6074AnonymousInactive
Hi there –
We are in the midst of one of Owen’s worst periods yet, and I feel like I’m really about to have a nervous breakdown. He just had a stomach virus but prior to that he was slowly refusing to eat anything last week. This week he’s started to get a little better but still is only eating say, 1/2 a chicken nugget for dinner – and even that is tough to get in him.
He is whining ALL the time. When he’s awake, he’s whining. This morning he was even whining with the bottle in his mouth – something that I haven’t seen him do in close to a year I think. He ate a little better this morning – some avocado, some bacon, and some waffle (and a cracker on the way to school) but still just kept whining the whole time. I feel like he’s really hungry but won’t let himself eat. He took less of his bottle than usual this morning too.
So what could this possibly be? I know he’s got teeth coming in – would they disrupt his day THIS much? He is just attached to me and so sad and it just breaks my heart. It doesn’t feel right to me – it feels like there’s something going on and I just can’t figure out what it is. I’m so sad and exhausted and just want my poor little boy to feel good and be happy again. How can he develop normally when he won’t eat and is stuck to me?
I’m totally at a loss and could really use any of your suggestions. Do you have any ideas?
April 13, 2006 at 12:20 pm #6078AnonymousInactiveHi Laura,
I am wondering if he just still feels bad from the virus but teething does wreck total havoc too. I know I have told you this before but popsicles always do wonders for Seth.
I can relate to your frustration- Seth is still refluxing almost every night. I was just telling a coworker it is almost as bad as it was when he was an infant. I just don’t know what is going on. I told DH last night in tears that I don’t know how much more of this I can take then I feel so selfish for even saying that since Seth is obviously still hurting. His teachers said he has even been fussy at school this week and he is usually always happy there. He is getting over a virus though so I am hoping that is part of it.
Back to Owen, I would give it a few days and see if he returns to “normal”. I think you told me you still are doing soy in foods? It may be worth a shot to eliminate it all if he does not improve to see if that may be causing all of this.
Mom2Seth2006-4-13 12:21:11
April 13, 2006 at 12:55 pm #6081AnonymousInactiveOh Tiffany – you sound just like I was last night! I feel like my husband is so sick of hearing me complain about everything but I totally understand where you are coming from. It just seems like this has been going on for so long, doesn’t it? But then you’re right, how can we be upset about it when our little guys are uncomfortable? It’s just so tough.
I’m sorry to hear that Seth is still having problems. Hopefully both of these guys are just getting over their sicknesses and will be back to their normal selves soon. Thanks for “listening”!
April 13, 2006 at 1:02 pm #6082AnonymousInactiveAre you challenging dairy as in your signature? This created a whining monster in our house as well. I didn’t figure it out until I had run out of yogurt for a couple of days and then he was happy as a clam….
Just a thought………..
April 13, 2006 at 1:05 pm #6083AnonymousInactiveLaura, I’m sorry things are so hard right now. I know what you mean about feeling like you are going to have a nervous breakdown. I’ve felt that way many times in the midst of the reflux, teething, lack of sleep, and constant ailments that my older two seem to always have.
Anyway, I noticed you are challenging dairy. Could that be the problem? Also, it’s a good idea to stay away from dairy for several weeks after a stomach virus to give the intestines time to heal, especially if he had diarrhea.
And yes, teething can be very disruptive. Some babies just won’t eat when they are teething. Are you giving motrin at all? I had to give my little guy some this morning and it made all the difference in the world! Tylenol doesn’t seem to do the trick when he’s teething badly.
What medication is Owen on and how much?
I hope things improve soon. Hang in there. Motherhood is not easy, but you can do it!
April 13, 2006 at 1:06 pm #6084AnonymousInactiveGood thought, but no – I’ve just been lazy and haven’t changed that yet. I guess I should! No, we’re back on alimentum morning and night and rice milk during the day. Foods haven’t changed for months – we did add soy yogurt but he’s had that on and off so I don’t THINK that’s what it is – especially since it started before I tried it. It’s really weird – he’ll eat when we go out to a restaurant, or last night he would eat when we went outside, or when we’re in the car, but when we’re in the house he whines and won’t eat. It’s very weird and I can’t figure it out at all.
April 13, 2006 at 1:36 pm #6086AnonymousInactiveHow much Prevacid is he taking? Maybe it’s not enough.
It’s not unusual for babies to do better when they are not home becuase they are distracted from their pain when they are in different and more stimulating environment.
April 13, 2006 at 1:46 pm #6087AnonymousInactiveWell, he is on a low dose of Prevacid but it has always worked really well for him. He takes 15 mg split 7.5mg am and pm. I hesitate to increase it because he’s been on the same amount for so long and had always been doing so well on it. Just about a month or so ago I was at his GI doctor talking about our plan to first introduce dairy, then remove the prevacid because he was doing so unbelievably well. Then since we tried to give him the dairy he hasn’t been the same. He had diarreah for about 3 weeks (which finally went away – phew!) and his appetite has really dropped. His mood has really gone from super happy to fuss-master. That’s what makes me think that it’s teeth possibly, because nothing else has changed and he had been doing just fantastically.
I did give him motrin this morning but we took him to daycare a 1/2 hour later so I’m not really sure if it helped or not. We’ll have to see how he did there and how his day goes when we get home.
If it does seem like it’s reflux, I’m thinking of trying some mylanta to see if that helps at all. When he was really bad at the beginning we used to give it to him before every bottle and that would really help him. At least that could give me a sense of whether or not this is reflux. What do you think?
April 13, 2006 at 3:01 pm #6091AnonymousInactiveat this age, we gave up all but one bottle…is he still taking a lot of formula?
also, if he was recently sick, depending on what he had (i am thinking specifically of gi viruses) it will take a little while for his appetite to get back to normal. and easier said than done, as long as he eats something, try not to worry about how much he’s eating and just praise what he does eat. about the whining…are there any specific times of day? are you dosing up with tylenol/ motrin for teeth?
teeth and illness always go hand in hand around here. my husband and i always seem to have this chicken and egg discussion about which causes what…my husband likes to blame everything on teeth (because hannah loves a drama, and each tooth brings a new one) and i like to blame everything on viruses…
if you are concerned about food intake, worry less about what he’s eating, and just give him what he wants. we have a standing pretzle and cheerio order (and french toast) when hannah isn’t eating normally.
April 13, 2006 at 3:32 pm #6096AnonymousInactiveWell, he gets a bottle in the morning first thing and a bottle at night before bed – other than that he has formula or rice milk from a cup. He probably takes about 6 ozs in the am and close to 8 before bed. I’m nervous about giving those up because he eats so little otherwise, but I know that maybe if I do, he’ll start eating more. Maybe it’s time to give up the morning bottle to see if that helps, and then we can give him the pm bottle to make us feel like at least he’ll get that if he doesn’t eat much the rest of the day?
I’ve been trying the feed-him-anything route, but even his faves he won’t touch. Last night I was prepared for him to have an all-olive dinner, but he wouldn’t even eat those which usually are impossible for him to refuse. He had an entire avocado for breakfast the other day though – oh yeah, and a corn chip breakfast in front of barney yesterday. Ugh…
April 13, 2006 at 5:15 pm #6098AnonymousInactiveI kept my girls on their two bottles a day until they were at least 18 months old for this very reason. When they are sick, babies sometimes won’t eat anything else. At least with the bottles they are getting something, most importantly some fluids.
Like Becky said, it can take a while for the appetite to improve after a stomach virus. For my kids I remember it taking two weeks sometimes.
Trying Mylanta sounds like a good plan to see if the Reflux is bothering him. Keep trying the motrin too. It really helps my son when he is teething.
I hope Owen is feeling better soon!
April 13, 2006 at 9:04 pm #6107AnonymousInactiveHailey was SUCH a monster with her molars and eye teeth. It lasted for months. Her behavior was exactly like you are describing. Combine that with the recent virus and regular toddler behavior of doing what he wants when he wants, I think this will all pass.
We stuck with 2 bottles until 18 months as well and Hailey is the one that chose to wean, it was right after a virus. She just stopped drinking them one day and it was about 3 weeks before she replaced any of that with milk from a cup. Now she’s drinking about 18 oz a day of milk in a cup.
I don’t have much advice on things to try, it sounds like you are doing everything I would. I just wanted to let you know that it sounds normal and I really do think it will pass.
April 13, 2006 at 9:08 pm #6108AnonymousInactiveSorry, posted in the wrong section.
s&h’s mum2006-4-13 21:11:10
April 14, 2006 at 8:19 am #6126AnonymousInactiveThanks so much, all of you, for your help. We had a couple of small breakthroughs yesterday. The first was that he wouldn’t eat dinner again so we tried some mylanta and then he had two fish sticks and two tater tots and some green beans – so a good dinner! I don’t know if it was the mylanta that helped or if it was just the fact that by this time it was later and he was finally hungry.
Then this morning I didn’t give him a bottle – I offered him a cup and he was MAD – didn’t want it at ALL. But then I offered him some cereal and he ate about 10-15 mini shredded wheat pieces and 2/3 of a banana! He ended up having about 6oz of his formula from the cup, and now he’s having a waffle with his dad! He’s still a bit whiney but I can’t believe how much food he’s eating. I don’t know if it’s just that he’s feeling better or that removing the bottle was what we needed to do to get him eat, but I think I’ll at least be happy that the little guy ate finally!
April 14, 2006 at 10:27 am #6128AnonymousInactiveGood news – keep us posted!
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