Fussy when i lay him down?

When you say binkie do you mean a pacifier? If so we used a cloth diaper wrapped through the pacifier holder. Also they have this https://store.childmed.com/Detail.cfm?matrn=99011-01&clogid=11&categoryID=11&action=search&searchText=&searchCat=&searchPart=&searchResults=5

If I’m misunderstanding I’m sorry.

We called the pacifier a binky also. I just wanted to make sure. My son also liked having the pressure and he also layed on his back. That is why we started using the cloth diaper through the ring. I think the link I suggested also, the little doggie might add some pressure. I’m not certain though since I’ve never used it. Oh, something else we did is use one of those wedges they sleep btwn and we would roll his head to the side and that wedge would put pressure on his binky also. I’m not sure why my little guy like the pressure, but like yours he did. It was almost as if he just couldn’t keep it in himself. The good thing about using the cloth diaper also is that once you decide to take the pacifier away they still have the cloth diaper they can hold onto.

The cloth diaper was one of those gauze types. It was never in his face because it was through the hole in a very long u shape if that makes any sense and it was laying on his chest. It’s probably something you would want to experiment with while your with your baby. I hope that helps. I still don’t understand why my lo couldn’t hold the pacifier on his own.